When I get married, I'm not going to say my wife to quit her job. I want to esteem her intention whether to stop working or not.
But if a child was born, I would say her to resign her job and take care of the child. I don't want the child to feel lonely as much as possible. Of course, I will also take care of the child.
However, I won't quit my job. I think it is general that men engage in a job in Japan.
